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That said, which am to not follow my heart/gut/instincts? I dunno... an adult? Yikes. Somebody reassure me I'm not in need of a cold shower!

All three, you're the adult and those are your guides. Use them.

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28 May 2014, 10:06
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Your friend is friend zoned
You work with her
Dude code
Walk away

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28 May 2014, 11:43
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Your friend is friend zoned
You work with her
Dude code
Walk away


Papa Dennis with the good advice! :beer:


28 May 2014, 12:32
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Uhhhh, that was supposed to say "who am I to not follow...". My point was that I have a history of acting on my feelings without regard for sense when it comes to relationships - I guess I've always taken the attitude that it's dumb to squander something with potential because of trivial shit. Sometimes that shit turns out to be not so trivial, though...

...regarding the dude code thing, I can't say entirely agree. Almost everyone has been friend zoned by someone in their social circle at one point or another, and I've always taken the attitude that unless there was serious history, it's not really anyone's position to expect that no one they know should ever go there. I am almost certain there was no relationship beyond a friendship between these people, but that said, he seems very unhappy about the situation, although he outwardly has not confronted me about it. I really think he is a good dude and I don't want to see him hurt, so it's kind of "what I feel is right" vs. "what will be mostly likely to keep the peace". I don't see our friendship totally going down the shitter because of this, but I DO see some awkwardness, especially because we have a number of mutual friends, some of whom I work with, who are tighter with him than they are with me and are almost certainly apprehensive of any potential tension. All these people seem to respect me and not think I'm a dick, but I know they don't want to see their friend hurt or any other drama any more than I do.

I'm getting that wistful, emo feeling just thinking about all this. SMH

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I'm getting that wistful, emo feeling

temptation to sig... growing... so strong...

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ingenting wrote:
I'm getting that wistful, emo feeling

temptation to sig... growing... so strong...


I encourage it. I deserve to be shamed for this insufferable daintiness.

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28 May 2014, 17:21
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Good luck dude!

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ingenting wrote:
Solarfall wrote:
ingenting wrote:
I'm getting that wistful, emo feeling

temptation to sig... growing... so strong...


I encourage it. I deserve to be shamed for this insufferable daintiness.

I need some dainty fuckin' hugs from you, goddamnit.
I'm sure there will be lots of other rad ladies, perhaps even radder than this one.

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28 May 2014, 18:19
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ingenting wrote:
I deserve to be shamed for this insufferable daintiness.

A THOUSAND TIMES YES

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28 May 2014, 20:05
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Goddamn it ingenting, stop fishing off the company pier. Good things rarely come of it, and when they do it never seems to be for the people that make a habit out of it. It’s a bad idea to begin with , and a worse one if you don’t want to make things weird with your friend.


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Anhur wrote:
Goddamn it ingenting, stop fishing off the company pier. Good things rarely come of it, and when they do it never seems to be for the people that make a habit out of it. It’s a bad idea to begin with , and a worse one if you don’t want to make things weird with your friend.


Meh. I met my wife at work. Then again, we only worked together for three months before I got a better job.

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28 May 2014, 21:08
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I think it's reasonable to be wary of getting involved with someone who you work with, but it can work just fine. Likewise, I think social consequences need to be observed, but again, things might work out no problem. It's just a matter of how well the relationship itself works.

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28 May 2014, 21:39
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I retract my previous sensible comments and say grind the fuck out of that chick. Make her squirt!

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28 May 2014, 22:16
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Jeez guys, can't you tell I actually like this one? Cease your boorishness! Yeah, who am I kidding, it's a message board. Sometimes this thread feels a little too much like an old friend you're drinking with who won't stop twisting your nipple and filling your glass.

I am obviously overthinking this. Need to stop dorking out. Posi face! See what happens!

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28 May 2014, 23:18
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You are.

Let me tell you a tale:
Once I backed off from going further with a chick who was showing some interest, because of some, I guess you could say, "social restrictions", and also because there was a guy there who was a sort-of friend, who was in the friend zone with her. I felt some concern about those restrictions, and also felt bad for the guy standing right there as this girl was coming on to me pretty hard. That chance with her passed by, and my dumb ass never got another. Regret it? Fuck yeah. I'd rather have been a thoughtless heel that day and taken the path that would have followed, with her.

I'm not going to judge your degree of emotional judgement with women, nor do I know if this girl is interested in you or what. Only you will know if you are leading yourself astray.

Let me just say: the guy code is a myth, people meet their mate at work all the time, and chances are few. If she is clearly interested in you, to hell with everything else. If you know how to actually get from A to B with her, DO IT. Don't be this guy; trust me it sucks. ---> :byhatw:

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Just found out my nana had an aneurism last night and is in hosptial in Mississauga and probably not going to make ti. Sudden news and shitty news.


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You are.

Let me tell you a tale:
Once I backed off from going further with a chick who was showing some interest, because of some, I guess you could say, "social restrictions", and also because there was a guy there who was a sort-of friend, who was in the friend zone with her. I felt some concern about those restrictions, and also felt bad for the guy standing right there as this girl was coming on to me pretty hard. That chance with her passed by, and my dumb ass never got another. Regret it? Fuck yeah. I'd rather have been a thoughtless heel that day and taken the path that would have followed, with her.

I'm not going to judge your degree of emotional judgement with women, nor do I know if this girl is interested in you or what. Only you will know if you are leading yourself astray.

Let me just say: the guy code is a myth, people meet their mate at work all the time, and chances are few. If she is clearly interested in you, to hell with everything else. If you know how to actually get from A to B with her, DO IT. Don't be this guy; trust me it sucks. ---> :byhatw:


Listen to this fuckin' guy right here!

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Just found out my nana had an aneurism last night and is in hosptial in Mississauga and probably not going to make ti. Sudden news and shitty news.


Sorry to hear that, Durkin. :(

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The work thing is no big deal if you two can be adults about it. I.e. not being all weird if it doesn't work out. But going after a friend's girl is super shitty.

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Just found out my nana had an aneurism last night and is in hosptial in Mississauga and probably not going to make ti. Sudden news and shitty news.


Terrible dude... try to keep a positive mindset, things could get better. I hope for the best!

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Some guy in line behind me at the grill in my office caf was talking to his friends and said 'still' after every sentence. Then he answered his phone and did the same thing.

"yo they got real eggs here not the ones in a milk carton, still. I'm going to get the special, still. Two orders of sausage yo, still.".


I hated it.


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I hate hearing other people's conversations while they're on their stupid ass phones, wrapped up in their little phone world. Smoke signals, breh.

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I can't tolerate people who compulsively lie. I'm sorry your life is so uninteresting that you feel the need to make it sound so amazing. Either learn to lie better so I stop finding holes in everything you say, or just stop lying all the time!

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Thanks guys she passed on yesterday. It was quick and painless I was told. Can only hope she is in a better place now.


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RyanJD wrote:
Thanks guys she passed on yesterday. It was quick and painless I was told. Can only hope she is in a better place now.

:( :(
sorry, dude.

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